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Its Hard to Say Goodbye

TGIF all!

Since today is the last day of summer, I wanted to say goodbye by wearing a fun, colorful outfit.  This summer I took my love for color to new heights and wore combinations I wouldn’t have dared to try last year.  I was bolder and more creative with my clothing choices. Heck I even posted a  picture of myself in a bathing suit !

So farewell summer, Ill see you again next year!

Have a wonderful weekend!

Buh Bye!

Cardigan: Old Navy

Pants: Avenue (here on SALE!!!)

Shirt: Ann Taylor Loft

Flats: Libby Edelman

Necklace: Gap Outlet

Bracelet: NY & Co.

Casual Friday/Reclaiming the Booty

TGIF everyone!

I’ve been DYING for a pair of magenta colored pants for a while now, so when I saw these pants on Eloquii’s website I jumped all over them. When I put  them on, I was surprised by the snug fit around my hips and butt. As far as I could remember, I’ve always had a love/dislike (I refuse to say “hate”) relationship with my booty.   I grew up knowing I had a large posterior but  others began to notice the same once I hit middle school.    From the 6th to 8th grades I was  called “Getta the Butt” (the boy who started this proudly told me he didn’t want call me Jabba the Hut so he came up with Getta the Butt!).  Things hit a fever pitch in 10th grade  when the EU song “Da Butt” came out.  Almost on a daily basis  I was greeted by male classmates singing “Getta got a big ol’ butt…OH YEAH!”  During those years I would pray to God to deflate the size of my derrière so the teasing (and unwanted stares) would stop.  Unfortunately my prayers went unanswered and I started wearing  oversized clothes to deflect attention away from my butt.

Fast forward to 40-year-old me being flooded by unpleasant memories while trying on these pants. For a millisecond I thought about returning them but I stopped. Returning the pants will not make my booty any smaller than it is. By returning them, I would be allowing negative self-doubt to rule me again.  So  I decided to keep the pants and show off   my glorious booty!

Have a wonderful weekend!

TJ told me to pose like this!

My bootylicious pose!
TJ in action!

Pants: Eloquii

Shirt & Bracelet: H&M

Blazer: Torrid

Shoes: Sofft

Necklace: Nordstrom Rack

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Orange Crush

Happy Hump Day everyone! Two more days til the weekend!

Yesterday I was browsing through my local H&M and I noticed it carried the H&M+ line. After walking around in the section for about 15 minutes I wasnt impressed with the collection at all. It had all the typical colors (black & white) and nothing remotely trendy. I was about to turn to leave when a rack of chinos caught my eye. The rack had navy blue chinos (of course!) and ORANGE?! I blinked twice because its rare to see orange pants for plus size women hanging on a rack. I immediately grabbed the largest size (24) because I know H&M pants run small and I knew I wouldnt be able to get into a size 20 pant. I’m so glad I got the 24 because they fit comfortably and aren’t snug or tight. The waist was too big but it was nothing a belt couldn’t solve. I love the melon orange color of the pants. It’s not too bright or too light. It’s a perfect color to match with prints and pastels. I paired the slacks with my orange print tie neck blouse that I had buried in my drawer. I added my bright blue blazer to for a pop of color. I am very satisfied with my first H&M+ purchase.

Have you checked out the H&M+ collection yet? Have a great evening!!!

Pants: H&M+

Blouse: Old Navy (bought it Fall 2011)

Blazer: Eloquii

Wedges: Enzo Angolini

Bracelet: Lord & Taylor

My First Full Figure Fashion Week

Happy Monday! Hope everyone had a great weekend!

On Saturday I attended the second day of New Jersey Full Figure Fashion Week in Atlantic City, NJ. This was my first time going to a Full Figure Fashion Week, so I didn’t know what to expect. I was nervous and excited. Nervous because I was flying solo and excited to be apart of the event. Unfortunately the weather was cold and rainy and my allergies decided to kick in big time, so I really wasnt feeling good. The event was held at Bally’s Hotel and Casino Expo Center (yes I played the slots, no I didn’t win any money…Boo!). I registered and waited for the first program of the day which was the fashion panel discussion facilitated by Paula Michelle (CEO of Nfinite Form, the founder of NJFFW). The participants on the panel were Jene Luciani (author of “The Bra Book”), Chelsea Settles (MTV reality star), Heather Feather (from TLC’s Big Sexy & Heather Feather), Amiee Cheshire (founder of Madison Plus), Nikki Blonsky (actress from the movie “Hairspray”….which I LOVED!!!), Gabi Gregg (awesome plus size blogger of Gabifresh) and Kayla Humpfries (celebrity model). The women on the panel were extremely knowledgeable, they all shared their personal stories and experiences about being plus sized women in the fashion industry and society. Their messages about self-love, body acceptance and creating your own personal style resonated with me. It was great seeing women who I greatly admire talk about similar challenges that I experience. These women are definitely on the frontlines in trying to change fashion’s perception of plus size women. After the panel I was able to meet Amiee Cheshire, Chenese Lewis (host of Plus Model Radio) and CurvyCeo (another amazing plus size blogger who has been so supportive of me). They were so gracious, kind and very approachable. I wasn’t able to get a photo with Amiee Cheshire but I got one with Chenese Lewis! Meeting them was the highlight of my day.

I also met Keysha and Karla from Brooklyn, NY when I sat at their table for the panel. I was initially shy when I sat down but introduced myself to them. I immediately felt at ease once I began talking to them. I struggle with being terribly shy at functions where I don’t know anyone so going to this event by myself was a huge leap for me.

The shopping expo began immediately after the panel. Retailers such as Eliza Parker, Bare Necessities (they offered bra fittings & had EXCELLENT customer service!), Jockey for Her and Baby Phat were in attendance. The DJ was played great music while we shopped and waited for the Formal & Bridal Fashion Show to begin. After about an hour, the fashion show started. The show featured dresses from IGGI by Yuliya Raquel, Monif C., Tadashi Shoji and Faviana. The models rocked the hell out of the runway! They were beautiful , gorgeous and proud of their voluptuous bodies. Vibrant colors, print and current trends were boldly on display. It was great seeing so many designers giving curvy women multiple evening/formal wear options that weren’t boxy, boring and shapeless. It was clear that they know their client base and design clothing that celebrate plus size women not marginalize us. Also many of these dresses were perfect for teens looking for a dress for prom. My personal favorite was the Susan Moses black jersey beaded gown. It’s a stunning v neck floor length gown with beading on the sleeves. The dress puts your curves on display in an elegant way. I fell in love with the dress immediately after I saw it. I wasn’t able to get a picture of it which is a shame because it’s such a beautiful dress.

Unfortunately due to a personal emergency I wasn’t able to stay for the remainder of the day. I was looking forward to the swimwear portion of the fashion show because I’m in the market look for a good bathing suit for the Summer.

I’m glad I decided to attend NJFFW. I had a good time and met some wonderful people. By being there I truly felt apart of the plus size community. I look forward to attending next year!

Have a great day!

Blazer: Nordstroms Rack (as seen here)

Jeans: ASOS Curve (as seen here)

Tank: ASOS Curve

Boots: Joan & David (I think! LOL)

Use What You Got…Part 2

Happy Hump Day!!! Hope your week is going well so far. Mine has been okay. No complaints here though. I’m looking forward to the rest of my week being event free.

Since I vowed to “use what I got”, I’m determined to combine items from my wardrobe to create outfits. I challenged myself to put together an outfit without using black, grey or navy blue. That decision eliminated 90% of my wardrobe. Ack!!! I didn’t realize how many dark color pieces I had. Before, I would just throw on a dark pair of slacks with a turtle neck and black boots. I wore this “uniform” practically everyday during the Winter. I’m more conscious of this “uniform” now and I’m breaking myself out of the habit.

So I combed through my wardrobe to see what I could come up with. I combined my mustard yellow Old Navy cardigan with my brown Lee trousers and my red Ann Taylor Loft blouse. Since the cardigan has become big on me, I cinched the waist with a leopard print belt that was apart of a Julie Dillon dress (Nordstrom carries her plus size dresses). I topped the look off with my gold tear drop earrings, gold bracelet from Lord & Taylor and brown suede Enzo Angiolini wedges. No dark colors! Mission accomplished!

What items from your closet are you combining?

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Cardigan: Old Navy
Blouse: Ann Taylor Loft
Pants: Lee
Belt: Julie Dillion
Bracelet & Earrings: Lord & Taylor
Shoes: Enzo Angioloni wedges