Bathing suit season is quickly approaching which can cause anxiety for some of us ladies. For many years I would avoid wearing a bathing suit and when I did, I would only wear a suit with a skirted bottom. I honestly thought the skirt was hiding my thick thighs and bodacious booty (it wasn’t lemme tell ya! LOL) So while on my cruise last August, I decided to throw caution to the wind and go without a skirted bottom. This was the first time I had ever conjured up the nerve to venture out without a skirted bottom. At first I was scared because my security skirt/blanket was gone but after a while I completely forgot about it. After that I decided to never go back to a skirted bottom. Uncovering my lower half was another step in accepting my body, thick hips and all!
Now that I’ve “liberated” my hips (lol), I’m looking for new swim suit for the Summer. Plus size swim wear has come such a long way. Now there are chic, trendy choices for suits that still provide coverage and support. There are now bathing suits with fun prints and bold colors to reflect your personality. Below are a sample of some of the fantastic options out there. Which one is your favorite?
Last night I had the pleasure of attending Monif C’s preview of her new swimsuit collection “My Beach Is Better”. If you are not familiar with plus size designer Monif Clarke, please let me introduce you! Monif C is known for clothing that allows plus women to feel gorgeous and sexy. Her creations are curve loving and blow all fashion “rules” for plus size women out the window. This is also true for her latest swimsuit collection. You’ll find no garish floral print and unflattering silhouettes here! These suits are all about flaunting your wonderful body without worrying about what others think.
Here are a few swimsuits from the new collection:
A black & white swimsuit is high on my Summer “must have” list so when I saw this geometric print suit, I was in love!
Another bonus was hanging out with some of my favorite bloggers!
I gotta give a shout out to my Philly crew, Colleen of Short Curvy Fierce and Yve for making the trip to NYC so worth it. Whenever we get together we always have a great time and last night was no different. Thanks Colleen and Yve for hanging with me!
When I found out that the tutu was going to be the next 30+ Style Collaboration, I was like “no way Jose!”. I’ve seen multiple bloggers looking wonderful rocking a tutu but I couldn’t see myself doing it. I’ve accepted there are some trends that are just not for me (me and harem pants will NEVER mix!) and I had put tutus in that category….until now. As we all know, sometimes rising to a challenge helps us to grow as a person. Participating in this collaboration helps me shatter the myth that women over 40 don’t have fun with fashion…yes we do! We like to be on trend just like everyone else! Dont let that “dressing your age” crap stifle you and stop you from looking your absolute best. Remember….STYLE HAS NO AGE OR SIZE!
Check out how the other bloggers in the 30+ Collaboration styled their tutus!
Winter is FINALLY outta here! Woo hoo! Although the temps aren’t Spring-like yet, I’m just grateful it’s here!
This year the arrival of Spring has a lot of meaning for me. In my post Shining Through, I touched on some of the emotional issues I’ve been dealing with. Besides my family and close friends, no one knew that behind my smile I was dealing with crippling anxiety and depression. Knowing I didn’t want to live like that anymore, I made the decision to seek help to address my “stuff”. Since the season is all about renewal and change, the growth I’m experiencing is sort of a Spring cleaning of the soul. I’m learning how to let go of fear, resentment and anger which is helping me change my perspective on life. I’m renewing my self-confidence and resiliency that were temporarily interrupted. Making change is HARD butI know I’m blessed and fortunate to see another Spring!
What does the arrival of Spring mean to you?
Have a wonderful weekend!
Sweatshirt: Gap (here; sold out in XL & XXL)
Skirt: Eloquii (old)
Heels: Nine West (old)
How was everyone’s weekend? Great I hope! As you can see, I got a new haircut and color! I made the decision to retire my mohawk on Friday and luckily my hairdresser had an opening on Saturday afternoon. I absolutely LOVE my new color and I can’t stop smiling about it!
In my post “3 Trends To Try This Spring”, I talked about how pastels are going to be HOT for the season. With Spring a little over a week away, you can make them apart of your wardrobe now. Try picking a pastel (pink, yellow and blue are my favorites) that looks good on you. Once you find colors that work, pair them with neutrals to ease into the trend. Also wearing colors that historically work well with each other (ex. blue and yellow) is another simple way to wear the trend. I’ve always loved the combo of pink and green together, so I incorporated them into my work outfit today.
Will you be giving pastels a try this Spring?
Have a wonderful day!
Pants: Lord & Taylor (no longer available)
Blouse: Dorothy Perkins (appears to be sold out…booo!)
Necklace: Ann Taylor Loft (old)
Shoes: Ivanka Trump (via Nordstrom)
Clutch: Love, Cortnie
After I finished my last post I realized that the three trends I wrote about (florals, black & white and pastels) could be worn now with a few modifications (i.e. tights). I picked black & white first because it’s easy to wear and accessible. In the previous post, I mentioned wearing different prints together, so I decided to show this by wearing black & white polka dots and stripes together. Wearing the same color scheme when mixing prints is an easy way to ease into it without feeling overwhelmed. As you can probably tell, polka dots and stripes are a favorite of mine. It’s important that you find a combination of prints that YOU like. Once you find a combo that works for you, try wearing it in different colors!
Also I want to give a shout out to Rocquelle of Consider Me Lovely for the outfit inspiration today!
Have a wonderful day!
Skirt: Simply Be (here)
Shirt: Lane Bryant (here)
Blazer: Calvin Klein (bought last year)
Wedges: Bandalino (old)
Today is my 42nd birthday and I’m happy that while it’s still very cold outside, the sun is shining bright on my special day. To celebrate my 42nd year of life, I treated myself to something I’ve been wanting for years…A TRIP TO PARIS! I can’t tell you how excited I am about my upcoming trip! I think I’ll probably faint when I get to the top of the Eiffel Tower (from either excitement or from my fear of heights! LOL)! Trust me I will be taking a gazillion pictures and will post them when I get back.
Have a wonderful day!
Coat: Talbots Woman (here)
Jeans: Lane Bryant (old)
Shirt: Old Navy (old)
Necklace Shoplately (here)
Shoes: Nine West (old)
Bag: Longchamp (gifted)